A handful of my friends complain and whine, saying they cannot tahan (to endure without repugnance) another party's antics, the meaningless conversations or the downright criticisms. True, the other party might not mean it and even use those criticisms as an excuse for jokes. I for one, do not agree with straightforward criticisms in front of the masses. If I were to use those 'genre' of jokes, I'd make sure the people around the person is either close to him, or been friends for a long time.
This is rampant especially with my current friends in school. For the first few weeks, I was in their clique, having lunch together and stuff. But I cannot tahan anymore and left the group. Was alone for a week or so, but soon moved on to more fruitful friendships with 2 or 3 individuals. If you cannot tahan them, just angkat kaki and jalan (leave for greener pastures)...
Oh ya, and to my friends who're going through a tough time, stay strong, stay focused. Life is too short to mull over 'small' stuff. Cry, and MOVE ON!
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