It has been so long since I put much thought into blogging. Entries have been so and so, the language is broken, and I really need to come up with interesting content for you guys to read. Okay, so let's do a personal entry today aites. I'll blog about how I've been coping since the break up, about 6 months ago.
The break up has been a quiet affair by most people's standards and it has really been a one-way trip since. People question me whether I'll go back, what are the chances of patching up, and why. I choose not to answer because its none of their business but only to those who are sincere and want to learn from the mistakes I made during the relationship. As much as I want to state what happened, and what led up to the break up, I think its best we keep it at rest, and give the lady the respect she deserves.
Single life isn't THAT great. Its so overrated la. Yes, I did manage to meet a whole lot of single ladies, go out with them and share a meal or two. But its different by a million times when you go out with your girl. I can't be myself, I can't dig my nose in front of her, and I have to control my bowel movements so as not to embarass myself. My thoughts come slower and the worse part is, when that date has absolutely no common interest as myself. I need to rack my brains for a common topic and you know I hate to think when I'm outside of school. hehehe! So, yea, meeting new people has been hard for me. There was an exception though. And she bites like a dolphin. haha. More on her some other time aites.
With the girlfriend out of my life, I found plenty of free time and start to attend sausage parties. Guys night out at Clarke Quay, drinking sessions at Al-Amin, gaming sessions at Bukit Timah, and the odd bbq taunts at East Coast into the wee hours of the morning. No need to report strength, no need to hear the nags, and no need to send her home! hahaha. Only gotta tell me folks at home I'm a-okay.
And I just had a BBQ with my group mates a few days back. OMG. Another sausage fest.
As my social circle widens, so does my experience in getting to know what a person likes, and dislikes. I've come to know great men and women who have accomplished things I could never imagine. Like graduating from school and becoming a lecturer in Ngee Ann, a naval diver in the Special Forces, and having a million dollars in the bank before she turned 21. Like wth. I learn to be humble, and respect the strengths of each individual.
Being single hasn't been a path of roses for me, nor it is a struggle. I'd say its just another day at the office. I know, she's moved on, found a new boyfriend and I should move on too. But then again, I just love the way things are with the friends I have, and enjoy each other's company whenever we meet. A girlfriend is not what I need right now.
What I need, is a companion who has the same ethics, objectives in life and willing to share her heart with me. Cheers to love!
The break up has been a quiet affair by most people's standards and it has really been a one-way trip since. People question me whether I'll go back, what are the chances of patching up, and why. I choose not to answer because its none of their business but only to those who are sincere and want to learn from the mistakes I made during the relationship. As much as I want to state what happened, and what led up to the break up, I think its best we keep it at rest, and give the lady the respect she deserves.Single life isn't THAT great. Its so overrated la. Yes, I did manage to meet a whole lot of single ladies, go out with them and share a meal or two. But its different by a million times when you go out with your girl. I can't be myself, I can't dig my nose in front of her, and I have to control my bowel movements so as not to embarass myself. My thoughts come slower and the worse part is, when that date has absolutely no common interest as myself. I need to rack my brains for a common topic and you know I hate to think when I'm outside of school. hehehe! So, yea, meeting new people has been hard for me. There was an exception though. And she bites like a dolphin. haha. More on her some other time aites.
With the girlfriend out of my life, I found plenty of free time and start to attend sausage parties. Guys night out at Clarke Quay, drinking sessions at Al-Amin, gaming sessions at Bukit Timah, and the odd bbq taunts at East Coast into the wee hours of the morning. No need to report strength, no need to hear the nags, and no need to send her home! hahaha. Only gotta tell me folks at home I'm a-okay.
And I just had a BBQ with my group mates a few days back. OMG. Another sausage fest.
As my social circle widens, so does my experience in getting to know what a person likes, and dislikes. I've come to know great men and women who have accomplished things I could never imagine. Like graduating from school and becoming a lecturer in Ngee Ann, a naval diver in the Special Forces, and having a million dollars in the bank before she turned 21. Like wth. I learn to be humble, and respect the strengths of each individual.
Being single hasn't been a path of roses for me, nor it is a struggle. I'd say its just another day at the office. I know, she's moved on, found a new boyfriend and I should move on too. But then again, I just love the way things are with the friends I have, and enjoy each other's company whenever we meet. A girlfriend is not what I need right now.
What I need, is a companion who has the same ethics, objectives in life and willing to share her heart with me. Cheers to love!
2 comments:
like your maturity...you have friends and cherish them...bragging won't change who we are...just be yourself...
Deep inside, I feel like I should just let it all out. But then again, I wouldn't want to give fuel for rumors unnecessarily.
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