How often do you hear this advice; "Listen to your heart," when you ask for relationship advice from your friends?
That doesn't help much does it? Your heart is in a million pieces, okay, perhaps the number of pieces it is shattered into is linearly proportional to the number of years or memories that the two of you had, or perhaps, you can plot the number of memories (let it be x) against t (time) and differentiate the equation to get the gradient in order to derive the intensity of anguish [Prof Sundarajan, 2008], and there you have a 'useful' piece of advice. To listen to your heart.
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Listen to a shattered heart? The only thing that it could muster is to probably convince the brain to react negatively.
So bottom line is, NEVER listen to your heart. Use your God-given brain to think, and look for constructive evidence that could support the reason to either mend things, or go separate ways for good. Make a table with 2 columns. One being the positive memories & positive characteristics. The other with negative memories & negative traits. Then, fill the columns as truthfully as you can. With that, you probably have a 70% of making an informed decision that you won't regret later in life.
Have a laugh, and move on with life. Like they say, there are many fishes in the pond.
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In a relationship you must know how to balance your emotional and mental feeling. Don't decide when you are angry and don't promise when your happy.
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