After telling a friend what I've been through today, I can safely conclude that nice guys finish last. Its the bad boys who take the spoils of war. The women, the gold, the ship and everything else. We nice guys only get the scraps and we have nothing to show for at the end of the day. Not even our intelligence (which I got back? Lolx!).
Only our aching mind, body and soul...
Well, I'm not saying I'm a good guy or a nice one. I've been nice, I've always been a pacifist, I try to avoid arguments and make peace every time when its possible. I don't go around looking for trouble. I make love! No Wars!
There are people who get the wrong idea. The other guys who think you're a sweet talking flirt and desert you to be friends with other brawnier brainless guys. But thing is, these guys just beat around the bush and stab you in the back. We nice guys don't do that. We are forthright in our dealings, and always, as always try to put the other party at the winning side just so they feel at ease.
I'm totally awe-struck by another friend of mine. He spoke of ethics and values in life. He wasn't someone I'd usually buy ideas from. But the more he spoke, the more wise words came out from that narcotine laden mouth. I particularly like the part when he said that he would go all out for a friend. Particularly close friends who have been with him through thick and thin. And he would even go so far as to getting hurt just so that this friend wouldn't have to go through the pain.
There are some things in life, you only get to choose one. Be it your PC, your Honda Wave, your cat (yes you can have many, but only 1 must've been really tender to you), your bed, you know... Stuff that really matter to you. (I'm being very indirect here). There's only one. You chose one, you'll stick with it. And you can't get another one unless you're a very very fair man.
I'd say I'd rather not take the risk of clearing things up with the people involved. I don't want any misunderstandings, no tragic events. Its best we nice guys absorb the damage incurred, and hopefully with perseverance, we'll make it through the darkest hours. Yeah like the one in DoTA. 125% mana regen, 5hp per second regen. Or perhaps I need a heart? Adds 35 strength and 15hp per second regen.
Now, I have lots of unplanned Saturdays and Sundays. Anyone wanna go out for a drink? Ice-cream? Gotta catch me cause my 'days are numbered'.
Only our aching mind, body and soul...
If you have, you're a nice guy and generally you get nowhere with women! Sure, you get on well with women you meet, but somehow they always befriend you, meanwhile dating a selection of asswipes. They even have the temerity to cry on your shoulder about these guys. This usually involves the line "oh why, sob, can't I meet a nice guy?" while you silently scream "I'm here, I'm here"! The ultimate bummer, eh guys?The graph above is the graphical representation of the old maxim that nice guys get nowhere with women. It's an exponential decrease, so your chances really plummet the nicer you are. If the scenario outlined in the paragraph above describes you, then you're in section c of the graph and it's terminal, I'm afraid.
Source: pikyvag.blogspot.com
Well, I'm not saying I'm a good guy or a nice one. I've been nice, I've always been a pacifist, I try to avoid arguments and make peace every time when its possible. I don't go around looking for trouble. I make love! No Wars!
There are people who get the wrong idea. The other guys who think you're a sweet talking flirt and desert you to be friends with other brawnier brainless guys. But thing is, these guys just beat around the bush and stab you in the back. We nice guys don't do that. We are forthright in our dealings, and always, as always try to put the other party at the winning side just so they feel at ease.
I'm totally awe-struck by another friend of mine. He spoke of ethics and values in life. He wasn't someone I'd usually buy ideas from. But the more he spoke, the more wise words came out from that narcotine laden mouth. I particularly like the part when he said that he would go all out for a friend. Particularly close friends who have been with him through thick and thin. And he would even go so far as to getting hurt just so that this friend wouldn't have to go through the pain.
There are some things in life, you only get to choose one. Be it your PC, your Honda Wave, your cat (yes you can have many, but only 1 must've been really tender to you), your bed, you know... Stuff that really matter to you. (I'm being very indirect here). There's only one. You chose one, you'll stick with it. And you can't get another one unless you're a very very fair man.
I'd say I'd rather not take the risk of clearing things up with the people involved. I don't want any misunderstandings, no tragic events. Its best we nice guys absorb the damage incurred, and hopefully with perseverance, we'll make it through the darkest hours. Yeah like the one in DoTA. 125% mana regen, 5hp per second regen. Or perhaps I need a heart? Adds 35 strength and 15hp per second regen.
Now, I have lots of unplanned Saturdays and Sundays. Anyone wanna go out for a drink? Ice-cream? Gotta catch me cause my 'days are numbered'.
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